New Year's Note

Life, despite fulfilling the demands of the society and the need to have more, we have skinned ourselves to become lesser than the person we were supposed to be. We tend to compromise by thinking that "if i don't get it now, there won't be later."

In other words, we become impulsive.

Recently, due to the mixed feelings that I have against facebook (or perhaps social media in general), I decided to go on hiatus. It took me for about a couple of months to get back on facebook. This decision has resulted to the lost of other online accounts such as foursquare and path as well. Yet, I couldn't be bothered. Despite keeping my old facebook account active, I generally don't attempt to fit in the facebook culture anymore. I guess, I have lost the momentum.

It was only a few days ago, I started receiving news about what happened to many of my friends. Thanks to my "social media free" phase, I probably have missed out important events happening to them. Some went overseas, some got a new job, some got married and etc.

It amazes me to see within my short hiatus, people could simply move on so quickly. Burnt bridges, dead relationships and broken marriages seem to be common for people my age. I guess we can't just avoid God's plans for us. But at least, we are obligated to be more careful next time. Impulsive is bad.

Nevertheless, I am sad. I am among those who have lost similar battles. All of the sacrifice I did, they don't appear meaningful day by day. This is for the love that we have lost and the sacrifice we have done -- let us pray the best for our lost and pray that we will be stronger in facing God's plan, that is much better than we had before.

Happy new year, 2013.

Think English

"Of course, English teachers only teach is, are, was and were." This is the belief owns by many academicians who think English is just a piece of cake without knowing that they are actually making a fool out of themselves. Seriously, I am now in that set of belief where many of my colleagues think less of me. They do not know that the moment they "take it easy" with English, they are actually putting their career at stake. It is evident from the atrocious errors made by those who own masters degree or even PhD in their written and spoken language. What is more worrying is that, these people are the ones who were supposed to teach students using English as the medium of instruction. Imagine having a professor teaching Business subject using bad English. (Period). And when the students speak bad English, they blame the English teachers for not doing their jobs well. Where is the fairness in this? It is definite that those graduates who fail to empower English actually come from the sole consequence of the "take-it-easy academicians". They, of all people, should know that English is best learned through maximizing the English usage and if they refused to use and learn English perfectly, how can they boost the learning environment to the students. Please, as academicians, you are not supposed to think that English teachers only teach is, are, was and were. We work in a learning institution, hence, we are bound to learn everyday. You think of your life experience learning English, did you only learn is, are, was and were? Stop humiliating yourself.

Just my two cents.

Anugerah Bintang Popular: The fight for our local artists

So, the Aaron Aziz won the ABP 2011 recently and the Zed Zaidi was unhappy because the Aaron is Singaporean. Fighting for the right cause?

I must say that this is an act of bravery and congratulations to Zed Zaidi for attempting to open the eyes of the people. It is no doubt unfair that someone who is not even local to hold such a title in this country. If not well supervised, in future, there would even be Indonesian or Korean who would stand a chance to compete and win.

However, before moving to that line of nationality, I think that the so-called prestigious event should be revised too. It has now become obvious that something is wrong with the event organised by one of the established local newspaper giants. If you say that it should focus more on the popularity of the local artists, why does the event appeared racist for so many years?

As he proudly said "1Malaysia" on national television, I think he should be more concerned with how the event has been so focused on the popularity of the Malay artists. Malaysia needs more events of a nationalistic approach. Berita Harian should be read by all walks of life, it shouldn't be the Malays only. The same thing goes to other racial-based award events. There shouldn't be one particular event show for one specific race. There's nothing 1Malaysia if such events are celebrated only by a specific group of people.

Think about it. Which is more worthy? Fighting for the nationality differences or fighting for our common grounds?

Abolishing PTPTN: Yay or nay?

NAY! Why?

It's a desperate political agenda that aims to corrupt the minds of the young.

Just my two cents

The irony of it: The case of DSAI

"Takbir!!! Allahuakbar!!!"

The godly expression above was used by many users from Malaysia on twitter as soon as the acquittal of DSAI's sodomy charges was updated on this social networking website. Frankly, I have nothing against the involvement of religion and the fight of one's reputation and/or politics. It is very natural for both religion and politics to coexist in this manner. However, it is the chain of reactions made by others as soon as the takbir worries me the most.

In responding to this issue, one person could become very religiously expressive by remarking "Takbir!!! Allahuakbar!!!" in his twitter update, and then in a split second, the very same person could post a hate-twitter-update cursing Saiful and those who were involved in DSAI's case by saying that they should be burnt to death and many more. It became even more serious when both the takbir and hate-updates simultaneously flooding the timeline from one person to another like a domino's effect. It appeared as if they were very religious and very angry at the same time. The timeline was like a court on its own where everyone put justice in their own hands and judged the whole situation freely as if the politician was their own father.

I believe all of us have to start putting things back into perspective. I am not religious enough to talk about religion but my religion has taught me respect and patience. And I strongly feel that a good leader should control the anger of their followers and show the right way of expressing themselves. A good leader should bother. And followers should at least think before making drastic decisions.

Just my two cents

Young at heart: Refuge over the wrong (or right) cause

"what's wrong with a little destruction?"

We often say that the future of our country is in the hands of our youths*. Our roles in the society with regard to the progressive behavior of our youths today is often reflected through the (critical) judgments that we make on them. For instance, a role-model youth studying in the UK takes off her tudung has caused stress to many Malaysians. In many ways, we have to acknowledge the fact that our society is a concern society. Regardless the contentions of their arguments are good or bad, the reality is the society cares.

University students' involvement in politics is not something new. It happens not only in Malaysia but across the world in general. We have seen many examples of riots done in the middle east countries involving students and this has waved to our country (somehow). Their involvement is also shown in their freedom of speech. Many youths speak openly of their views on politics on their Facebook, twitter, blogs and so on. Frankly, it's not that I am against all of this. I simply believe in healthy participation. One should participate and deliver his voice in a mature manner.

Riots and demonstrations tend to end negatively. When too many people in rage gather in one place, actions like shouting, quarreling, vandalism and fighting are more likely to happen. In many cases, people get hurt. Looking back at what happened in UPSI, it is clear that our youths are not ready to be involved in politics healthily. Many of them are emotional, reckless and perhaps, do not really know why they were there in the first place. In turn, it affects their studies and sadly, their future.

This is a worrying scenario as more and more young people are involved in such act and fought for all the wrong (or right) cause with the wrong behavior. As a caring society, what are our roles towards this issue? How can we train our young minds to behave in demonstrations and write in blogs appropriately?

Fix our belief system

Judging a person's behavior is easy. There are many instances where many people have judged the acts of others today. Actions are being monitored and criticized openly without addressing the real issue. When it comes to the youths, more and more people blame the parents, religion and government without even relating to the real issue properly. As a result, many people are becoming less tactful and immature.

Mannerism in freedom of speech has to be fixed. It is not entirely about whether we support or condemn the issue. It's about how we put up our stand in a balanced and harmonious way. The young minds today do not need us to bash them up without appropriately telling them what they should do. What we say should leave an impact and function as an eye-opener to them. Negative thoughts do not really fix things up. On the same line of reasoning, youths should train themselves to be open-minded with what others say about them too.

These days, the stand mind your own business has rooted in our society. We just do not care what other people say about us as long as we can do what we want. As a result, many of us fail to know our borders. We speak openly about a lot of issues without considering the sensitivity of our culture, religion and the country's constitutions. It seems that the world evolves around us only.

Frankly, it is very normal for this to happen. But we should remember that life is best learned from mistakes. And in order for the experience to be meaningful, we should be open about our mistakes and be forgiving at the same time. We cannot expect our views and ideas are always perfect. As for the youths, as much as the adults can give all the flawed arguments, you are no exception to it as well. Hence, all of us should be more careful in our speech, be more open to criticism and forgiving all the time. None of us here is perfect.

Transform the education system

The problem with the education system in this country is that it runs in a political manner. The policy changes from time to time and this has proven that the government is "serious" in handling the system. For instance, the university study term for degree and post-graduate changed overnight because one person said that we have to follow the overseas term. This has resulted to the long breaks given to students and a slightly longer time to complete their studies. Other than that, the changes in the medium of instruction in school for Maths and Science subjects have certainly proven how the ministry are "concern" about the future of our children, too.

All the changes done by the ministry and the government have honestly made me worried. Is the system being directed poorly? Why are they so indecisive? English has always been their concern. Nevertheless, despite the effort done to improve the students' language proficiency, many of them still fail to perform. I believe that Maths and Science should not be taught in English. Students should learn History in English because History is a subject that is rich in vocabulary, grammar, sentence structure, at the same time ignite their imaginary skills, that will in the end develop their creative and critical thinking skills, which will benefit the development of their progressive behavior and freedom of speech later.

Sometimes, when we read the products (e.g. term paper, essays) prepared by many of our students today, their basic thinking skills are at stake too. Poor understanding of logic has led to many youths ended up delivering their ideas badly. A lot of ideas were analysed based on what they feel, not on what they should know about. This has caused tension to many people. How come these youths who were expected to run the country later cannot converse their thoughts fluently and accurately? Hence, the core of this issue goes back to the preparatory level of their thinking which is the school system.

The school system could use a serious transformation. Students need to stop learning for the sake of passing the exam and teachers as well as the school system need to be upgraded to a higher level. Teachers after 10 years of teaching should be sent away to further their studies. Give them access to discounted fees, and establish more universities for them to study instead of encouraging them to become complacent with their career. New teachers and new styles should replace the old ones. School headmasters and principals should be held by professors who own administrative diplomas, not old dogs who know how to do things their way only. Educationists should be the ones who run the show in the ministry. And every change should be supported with strong research findings. In this way, the changes in the system will be more extreme and not only the students' thinking and language skills will be developed, the students of today will also receive a transformation of a progressive and high quality of education.

Stop corrupting the minds of the youths

Political parties and organisations in this country should stop abusing the minds of the youths for the sake of their political interest. Let them deal with their studies and focus on their future. You know well enough that there are many youths in this country who are immature in dealing with your interest. Hence, you should stop putting these youths' future in jeopardy. You are already established, so, why messing with the youths who were about to have a taste of life? It is in many ways, unfair.

Political parties and organisations should be more content in empowering the youths to fight for the right cause like child abuse, baby dumping, orphanage, flood victims, turtle conservation and so on, rather than political interest which is usually a wrong cause. It is wrong to manipulate the young minds and instill rage in them who are in many ways weak as it will only cause more destruction to themselves, society and country.

As an individual in a caring society, it is hoped that this point of view will be of value. I am in many ways flawed and I accept any criticism with an open heart. I am hopeful that all of us will be a more effective society towards the issues happening around us.

Just my two cents.

*youths/young people - age group from 15-24 years old.

Professionalism at work

Professionalism is best served cold-heartedly

It is undeniably crucial for all of us to be professional at work. In whatever things that we do, we must not let our feelings cloud our judgment. If this happens, workplace issues may not be tackled effectively and consequently, the department and the whole organization would be at risk.

These days, there are many staff from various industries who can be labelled as failed professionals. One simply misuses his/her position to abuse others. The weak becomes weaker and the not-so-strong becomes much stronger - just like bullying. Perhaps, this scenario occurs as a domino effect in the office hierarchy. When the higher level of administration bullies your immediate boss, your immediate boss bullies you in return. The question is, at what point this scenario should stop? Should we fix our immediate boss or the big boss; or should we just quit our job and take the next boarding flight to god-knows-where and just get lost in a foreign land? I'm rambling.

Professionalism; perhaps, I am not the perfect example. However, when it comes to work involving others, I make it a point to be dedicated because I do not like to cause problems to other people. Regardless I like or I hate a person, when it comes work, I make it point that work is work. I used to bash my own friend in a discussion but after the discussion we're still friends and it goes vice versa. I believe that in many ways, this is healthy.

In some organizations, the term professionalism is judged based on how the people dress but not how the people behave. When professionalism and ethics are sadly focused on the outlook of the people, the soft skills development is eventually being deprived. This explains why there are many people who "look" professional but the moment they open their mouth, the term professionalism seems to be just a myth.

Our personal feelings and thoughts should not get in the way when we are at work. Thus, we should avoid talking about other people's personal issues at work and we should give FULL cooperation to the person we know we hate or we love. It may seem hard but it is the RIGHT thing to do. This bullying scenario has to be stopped at some point and I strongly feel that the domino effect can be changed. If everyone has the awareness of doing the right thing, keep an open mind, be forgiving and helpful, we will make up a strong team and a successful organization.

listen and think

Wahai anakandaku sayang

Mana hilangnya budaya

Diculik piring terbang

Atau ditelan buaya

Tiada peluang tiada ruang

Semua mahu cepat kaya

Pabila semua dah hilang

Barulah hendak percaya

Cukuplah semua ini

Hati bonda tersepih

Biarkan bonda pergi

Dimakan ditelan

Batu belah batu konkrit

Wahai anakanda ku sayang

Kenapa gadai pusaka

Sebab cinta atau wang

Atau kerna kurang peka

Seperti lalang-lalang

Suka belok suka leka

Ikut telunjuk bayang-bayang

Akhirnya diri terluka

Melihat semua ini

Hati bonda menjerit

Lepaskan bonda lari

Dari dihimpit putar belit

Masyarakat hipokrit

Wahai bonda jangan merajuk

Bonda jangan makan hati

Anakda disini memujuk

Dan anakanda takkan berhenti

Kini sekadar impi

Baru faham semua ini

Bonda tolong jangan pergi

Maafkan anakmu

Cukuplah semua ini

Hati bonda tersepih

Biarkan bonda pergi

Dimakan ditelan

Batu belah batu konkrit

Dari dihimpit putar belit

Hamba duit masyarakat hipokrit

Bonda rela dimakan ditelan

Batu belah batu konkrit

Breaking the girl: Nur Amalina Che Bakri

It was just another regular evening when my friend suddenly saw updates on twitter regarding Nur Amalina Che Bakri. We were basically clueless, so, we tried to track down the tweets and ended up even more clueless. Hence, we tried the next best thing which is our beloved google. As we googled the name we saw some entries about the designated person and the things that people said with regards to her failing to finish her studies. We quickly concluded "That's it? BORING!" Why on earth the whole country actually made such a big fuss about this so-called brainee who scored her SPM with flying colour but failed to finish her studies in the UK. Later, I found out that there's more to it. Nur Amalina didn't only fail to finish her studies but she failed in other aspects too. It turns out that she has changed (drastically). Please refer to the pictures below:

PRE-UK

WHILE-UK

Apparently, many Malaysians are not happy with the "while UK" photos. They consider them as sexy and in many ways a disgrace to the people, religion and the country. Perhaps they are right, and perhaps, Nur Amalina needs to be reminded after all. However, nobody's perfect. She's young and what she's doing is a basic portrayal of the meaning of being young. Give her some space to make mistakes. She'll learn from it eventually. I truly understand if the whole country is concern about this issue but bashing girls who remove their tudung and stereotyping them do not support the situation at all. Please don't make quick judgments, instead, advice her. In many ways, all of us are as flawed as Nur Amalina.

Just my two cents.

Introducción

"What the hell? Another blog?"

That's exactly what I had in mind when I suddenly thought of having a new blog. My last blog is ...well, sort of ...dead! And I just can't stand with all of the craps that I wrote back then. I was indeed boring in many ways!

This blog will eventually die just like my last blog(s), I can foresee that. There will be events of expected "hiatus" and they are usually caused by crazy deadlines or a lost of el passion di scrivere - common excuses!

I haven't decided on the genre of this blog yet but the expected contents would be craps and more craps about me against a lot of things. The mode of delivery would be very much reflective with lack of strong cross-reference procedure. Hence, you may expect me babbling like a child in the end. After all, it's my blog!

Finally, I know this blog won't attract much attention from others - that's usually the case when you start something new; but, eventually there will be many ghost readers. And if you are followers or ghost readers, I deeply appreciate your interest and I thank all of you in advance.